The Secret to Happiness & Success – Part 2
Finding happiness and success usually takes time, patience and dedication. If you focus your thoughts toward what you want, be consistent about it and practice the Law of Attraction (from part 1), these tips below can help your achieve happiness and success faster. The Law of Attraction is always working but many people failed to used it effectively. If you are serious about finding happiness and success, you will also need to have a basic understanding of the Four Basic Laws of the Universe.
My tips on how to find happiness and success
- Find your true inner self (most important): I like to view life as pieces of a self image puzzle. When you are born, you are innocent because those pieces of puzzles are scattered all around you. In order for you to find your true identity, you need to find the missing pieces to make you whole again. A great way to find them is to pay attention to the experiences you go through in life. In order to find these pieces quickly, you need to be willing to step outside of your comfort zone. You need to take risks, be open-minded and not be scare of failure. A better way to find your true-self is through spiritual wisdom. This spiritual journey will help you understand who you are from within; therefore, as you evolve, you will know who you are and why you are here. Warning! When you find your true-self, your life will turn upside down, inside out, and you will see the world from a whole different perspective. You will have confident and feel like you can achieve whatever your heart desires.
- Meditate: This is probably one of the most important technique you can do as a human being. Meditating on a regular basis will help you control your emotions and thoughts, helping you find inner peace. Most people are not happy because they become too attached to external things, such as money, cars, apparels and other necessities. When they do not have these necessities, their moods become unstable and they end up being depressed. Meditation helps free you from these attachments and gradually helps you reach a state of mental equilibrium (balance). At this level, you will be able to control your emotions regardless of the circumstances. You will be able to understand life and increase the connection between you, mother Earth, the Universe and Creation (God). This is what it means to find true happiness.
- Do not procrastinate, time is precious: If you have a great idea or see something you like, act on it. Do not wait until everything is perfect before you act because nature is not going to give you a lot of chances. When you act on the things you want right away, everything will come together, it is just going to take time and some hard work.
- Set goals: Setting goals can help you achieve what you want faster. Goals can provide motivation and give you a clear view of what you are aiming for.
- Watch for signs and be open-minded: Nature is always giving you signs or ideas. If you are not open-minded, you may miss them. For example, people who want to be rich will usually have a million dollar idea, but many of them will fail to take action because they are afraid of failure.
- Hang around successful people: My parents used to always tell me this but I refused to believe them until I started to hang around successful people. The thing about successful people, especially the ones that went through a lot of struggle to get there, is they know secrets about success that the average people do not. Plus, they usually have great connections. If you want to be successful, you need to be around them. Just do not become to obsessed with money. Also, be careful because not all successful people are nice and may try to take advantage of you.
- Learn to think a lot and outside of the box: People who are happy and successful think a lot about how they can improve their life, sometime too much. They also like to think outside of the box which is why they can come up with ideas that most people could never imagine.
- Do not be a follower: Everybody’s path to happiness is different. If you follow people’s footstep, you are becoming them and not yourself. Use people as inspirations and learn from their mistakes but do not mimic them.
- Do not repeat mistakes but learn from them: Everyone make mistakes, it is okay to make mistakes because we are not perfect. This is the beauty of being a person. What you need to do is not to repeat them but learn from them so you can improve your life.
- Adapt to change: This is very important because the world is always changing. Technology is a big one. Every decade or so, someone will come up with a great invention that will change the future of humanity. People who can adjust to the change quickly or take advantage of the new invention will usually live a better life.
- Learn to forgive: This one can be hard depending on how personal it is. If you do not learn to forgive, you will always have that negative energy inside you. This will make it very hard for you to find true happiness. Forgiving people will help release the negative energies inside you and make it easier to move on in life.
- Think positive: This seems easy to do but many people tends to think negatively through out the day. The reasons for their negative thoughts could be that they hate their job or marriage, do not have friends, are in dept, etc. Thinking positively will help make the day go by smoother because when you are happy, you will attract more happier people. You will be surprised how nice people treat you when you are happy.
Finding true happiness and success does not have to be hard It is only hard if you make it hard. You have some of the knowledge now so start thinking positive and find your happiness and success! Remember, if you can imagine it and truly act on it, you can achieve it, just be smart about it. It is never to late! Also, do not forget to watch the short video clip below. Whether you believe it or not, it is a very interesting philosophy. This is the video that inspired me to write this article. The video does a decent job explaining the Law of Attraction but is missing many of the details that are needed to help you see the big picture of how it works. To have a better success rate of using the Law of Attraction, you will need to have a basic understanding of the Four Basic Laws of the Universe.
If you have any advise on how to find happiness, feel free to leave a comment.
Movie Clip: “The Secret” By Rhonda Byrne
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Hello energy and health fanatics, independent thinkers, truth seekers and freedom lovers! My name is Pao L. Chang and I’m the author/founder of EnergyFanatics.com. Ever since graduating from high school, I noticed that my energy level was not as high as it used to be. While in college, I decided to educate myself about energy, health, wellness, and explore the mystery of alternative medicine and the power of spiritual healing. This journey taught me many things...
I think that to be happy you need to depend on yourself and STOP depending on others!
I agree! If you depend on people too much, you will be very lost when those people are not there no more. Having personal responsibility will help make you become a stronger person.
I agree that finding happiness takes time and I like your analogy between life and a self-image puzzle. Sometimes it can be so difficult to figure out where the pieces go but as you spend more time on it you start to see everything much more clearly. I read an article by Med Yones, a happiness mentor, covering the laws of happiness. “Be Aware! Happiness is an open mind. The more you open your mind the more you’ll enjoy life”. See the article at http://www.lifehappiness.org/lifehappinesscoaching101/index.htm