Have you ever wondered why sex is so addictive? Once you experience sex, you always want more, because it satisfies an urge within you. There are many forms of sexual energy. Some forms can lead to a relationship filled with unconditional love and other forms can lead to a relationship filled with hatred and violence.
Because not all forms of sexual energy are positive, it is important that you do not get yourself caught up with the negative forms of sexual energy, unless it is something that you want to experience. The negative forms of sexual energy will usually lead to an abusive relationship. The person who is the abuser will usually use sex to control the victim, resulting in a relationship that depends heavily on each other’s separate needs. As a result, it is very hard to find peace and love in this type of relationship.
The cause of sexual addiction
The energy associated with sex can be addictive, if you do not know how to keep it in balance. Sexual addiction occurs when your energy is either blocked or out of balance. There are many things that can cause distortions in your energy. In the case of addiction, it usually has to do with something that you do not understand or are fearful of.
Addiction is a misunderstanding of the desires that make you temporarily happy. When you do not understand your desires, you tend to become addicted to them because they give you a false sense of comfort. This kind of comfort is temporary, which is why you always want more. The desire to always want more is caused by not understanding why you are addicted to the desires in the first place. Once you understand your desires, your addictions will decrease or stop, because you have gained enough knowledge of those desires.
Sexual energy transfer
Sexual energy is the energy shared by two polarized entities. When sexual energy is transferred between two polarized entities, each entity will transfer its own unique energy attributes to fulfill its partner’s needs, causing a sense of fulfillment. The sexual energy of each entity fulfills the energy attributes that are lacking within each of the two polarized entities. This is why when two people who are in love have sex, they may experience a type of pleasure that is nourishing, refreshing and fulfilling.
Masculine energy is usually associated with physical energy and feminine energy is usually related to mental and emotional energy. When we look at these ideas from our perspective, they will translate into males being the carriers of physical energy and females the carriers of mental and emotional energy. This explains why males are more physical and females more emotional.
The interactions between masculine and feminine energy are essential for your health and survival, because without their interactions your energy can become imbalanced. This imbalance can lead to energy blockages, which in turn can manifest into addictions and diseases. It is important to understand that masculine energy does not necessary represent the male body and feminine energy does not necessary represent the female body.
Exchanging sexual energies between male and female
When sexual energies are exchanged between the male and female during sex, the male feels less emotional and mental stress because he is being charged with emotional and mental energy; therefore, stimulating his energy back into balance. On the other hand, the female is charged with physical energy, causing her to feel more refreshed and energized. This process of exchanging sexual energies increases the bondage between the male and female. However, in an abusive relationship, it can cause the opposite effect.
Sex is a need, which is why we cannot get enough of it. When a person does not get enough sex, that person can become crabby and cranky. However, a person who is more energetically balanced or knows how to control his/her sexual addictions will usually have less emotional problems related to sex.