Valentine’s Day is not always a happy day for all of us because some of our relationships are not always filled with love and kisses. Being in an abusive relationship where you are always fighting over who is in charge can be very stressful and painful. If you are one of those people who are in an abusive relationship, you may hate Valentine’s Day or be thankful that Valentine’s Day is finally over. Abusive relationships are usually motivated by obsession, control and jealousy. Most of the time, the abusive relationship occurs because of a misunderstanding of each other’s needs.